Showing posts with label Joy. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Joy. Show all posts

Sunday, November 30, 2008

A Letter....

A Letter from my future daughter-in-law

For more than a decade, we have prayed for our MIP. Over the last few months, we have all experienced a calm--a peace if you will, that has created a renewed confidence. I have posted that we are sitting in the lap of God. I shared with you how I said NO...and survived. And, when my MIP announced he was getting married, I knew I had prayed for his fiance since before I knew her name.

Now, this morning, as if my joy were not large enough, I received a letter from my future daughter-in-law. It was a sweet letter, a letter of thankfulness. And yet, as dear as her words of gratitude were, the words that have blessed my heart to overflowing were, "if Curt and I are going to make it as a family, we must have God in our lives, not just as one, but as a whole. My mission this week is to get Curt to church!"

Dear Mothers (and fathers) of prodigals, (MIP's!)--God hears our prayers. While you are standing in the gap for your loved one, it may feel as though your efforts as a watch(wo)men are in vain. They! Are! Not!

In this email of gratitude, my heart is filled with a Hallejah-gratitude.....for God is so faithful.

Yes, when we love a prodigal, our soul cries out to the Lord, "I wait for the LORD, my soul waits, and in his word I put my hope. My soul waits for the LORD more than watchmen wait for the morning more than watchmen wait for the morning" (Psalm 130: 5-6). Days, weeks, months, yes, even years go by as we stand in the gap for our loved one. And then, one day, as though our wait was just for a moment, we begin to see God's handiwork.

No matter where our prodigals journey, God can use their circumstances to bring them home. No distance can separate them from the love of God. No enemy too strong, no temptation too big--God our Savior is the hope of all the ends of the earth and of the farthest seas, He formed the mountains [with His] power having armed [Himself] with strength, [He stills the roaring of the seas, the roaring of their waves, and the turmoil of the nations." Psalm 65: 5-7

Our God is able.

He has brought a young woman into my MIP's life who believes that God is important to their future happiness.

Our hope is not in vain. He sustains me according to His promise! (Psalm 119:116) And I will praise Him forever for what He has done and IS doing. In His name I will place my hope, for His name is good. (Psalm 52: 9)

My future daughter-in-law is on a mission! Much like the mission of a watchman standing in the gap. Folks--this is HUGE!

HOPE in our LORD, is never in vain. And though we may tire and grow weary, our hope in the LORD "will renew [our] strength. [We] will soar on wings like eagles; [we] will run and not grow weary, [we] will walk and not be faint." (Isaiah 40: 31)

As for my reply to my future daughter-in-law's email...I am going to tell her what a gift from God she truly is. And, I'm going to ask her to help me plan the banquet. As for God, "I will praise [Him] forever for what [He] has done; in [His] name I will hope, for [His] name if good. I will praise [Him] in the presence of [His] saints." (Psalm 52:9)

And, for my dear blogging friends who stand in the gap with me for my MIP and your own, please hear what cannot be contained: We "rise before dawn and cry for help; I have put my hope in your word. My eyes stay open through the watches of the night, that I may meditate on your promises." (Psalm 119: 146-148). "The Lord delights [...] in those who put their hope in his unfailing love." (Psalm 147:11). "There IS hope for your future, declares the LORD. Your children will return to their own land."

That's some letter!

Friday, June 06, 2008

AND THEY SAID IT WOULDN'T LAST!!!!!

June 7, 1974

34 years and counting! 
Yes!  I'd do it all over again!


Saturday, May 10, 2008


A Reflection on this Mother's Day


Could I have known from the very start, 
How lost I could be in my child's heart? 
The joy I would feel at the sound of her breathing~
That with her first breath....my life had new meaning. 


How could I have known how much she would change me? 
Becoming the woman I n'er dreamed I could be. 
How deep the commitment to walk side by side, 
And protect at all costs, my love would provide.  

How can it be that my heart would expand? 
To make enough room for such a young man? 
Each child's unique and God's gift--times two...
Family! Such blessings, I had not a clue. 

           Still moment by moment I learned to trust, 
           No matter my history, old pain turned to dust. 
           For God had provided a healing path, 
           Revealing His love; a love that will last. 




I couldn't have known how complete I would feel, 
How full was my heart, to love with such zeal,
No holding back was my new found creed, 
Could it get any better?  Yes! Then there were three! 

How much we have grown since that first Mother's Day, 
God brought us together, there's no other way. 
My heart knows for certain, you were sent from above, 
To bless this mother's heart with an enduring love!


Sunday, March 30, 2008

You can tell it's almost Spring when:  

You get to take your horse outside for a little grazing.  Yup--there's some grass underneath all of that melting snow. And how Rauoul loves it.             

 In fact, the crisp Spring wind(storm) didn't faze him one bit.

He just kept strolling and grazing.

It was a sight to be seen. 

And enjoyed.

Ah Spring.



Even Dad got in on the fun.
"Raoul....on three...o.k.?"        1............2........                     ........3              





   "That's my Dad" 

Thursday, March 13, 2008


THANKFUL THURSDAY

One of the best things about blogging.....is Thankful Thursday. If you haven't made this a part of your weekly-stop-and-be-grateful-for-the-blessings-in-your-life.....will you begin today?

Today, like so many other days, I am thankful for the hope we find in God.

I am thankful for the love of family.

I am thankful that today is held in the palm of God's Hands.

I am thankful for Hailey.

Hailey is our third foster granddaughter. She is a child with Autism...significantly affected by this mysterious disorder. Yet, her mother, the adopted daughter of our heart, Diana, is a tireless and relentless advocate for Hailey and simply, an outstanding mother.   I am so thankful that Hailey has Diana!

The band Five For Fighting has made a video for Autism Speaks.  Every time someone watches the video, they donate $.49 to Autism Speaks.

I am thankful for your willingness to view this video--and help make a difference.  If you can, please pass this along for all of the mothers and fathers, grandmas and grandpas who will never hear "I love you" for their beloved children with autism.  



Blessings!

Wednesday, March 12, 2008

WORDLESS WEDNESDAY
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Anyone for a caption? What is my MIP, when he was 10, telling his Grandma?

Thursday, February 28, 2008


                                        Hi! Ho! Hi Ho! It's off to Disney we go! 

                  
Look out Disney!  






The Sista's have arrived!

Tuesday, February 19, 2008


Blog Award 

I did it! I did it! I did it!  

For so long, I have wanted to create a blogging award or two so I could reciprocate the honor, having won awards in the past.

I must admit, I am not as geeky as I once thought, because I have just spent 90 minutes creating this first award.....and while I am thrilled to be able to pass it on, I only wish it could have had more bling!  For the bloggers I am nominating for the first ever "You are a Star" award are truly bright lights in the blogosphere!  

For starters, Cindy, at Beneath the Ivy Wreath deserves this award as she truly lightens up any room!  

Then there's Grandma Dawn, my blogging AND IRL friend!  What a treasure she is!  And now that she has those darling little twin granddaughters...she's gonna need a little twinkle in her toes!  

And speaking of pairs, I first met Kristen who introduced me to her mom (Grandma Dawn).  What a year you've had Kristen...and what a star you've truly been.  A big "way-to-go" to you as your heart as grown in bunches!  You have a quiver full, my dear!  

A new blogging friend that brightens my day each and every visit, Karen at Karen's Korner!  I don't think a shadow ever falls on this blogger--she is just the bright!  

Finally, speaking of stars reminds me of California (follow-me?  tee-hee!)  Sharon Lynne at California Breeze has been a shining light from a far this past year as we've gotten to know one another in Bloggity-ville.  One day, someday, we will move beyond NMY friends to friends IRL!

And, until I create a really clever blog award for a really clever blogger, I am passing the "You are a Star" Award onto Yellow Mama at One Step Up From Stupid.  My blogging friends, this lady can write!  In fact, I have added a new side bar to my blog which, no doubt, will soon be filled with my favorite quotes by Yellow Mama!  "Now remember, I had prayed for help, but instead of listening to the Holy Spirit's direction, I got out the hack saw...."  Seriously, how did she know?

So be prepared, now that I have learned a new thing....I may just do it to death!  That would be the OCD in me--for which, I'm sure I can create a special award!  

Tuesday, February 05, 2008

I'm Back in the Saddle Again!

Our youngest son and last child passed his Drivers Test! He can now drive himself to and fro, which frees me up to have a life once again folks....do I hear a "HEE-HAW!!!!" As I waited for him to finish the test, I tried to sit calmly in the lounge--I failed. Pacing across the room, looking out each and every floor to ceiling window for just a peek of him on the course, my mind raced with thoughts of how quickly time flies! I can still remember holding him the day he was born sixteen years ago. And now suddenly, with a small 2x3 photo ID, he will be licensed to drive....further into independence...and away from me. So I hold him securely in my mind and promise to pray a blessing over him as he continues to grow into the young man God gifted to me!

Wednesday, January 09, 2008


First Love

Wednesday, January 02, 2008


Joy!

Tuesday, December 18, 2007

Tuesday Trivia

Tis the season....for a little trivia! I should be cleaning, preparing the house for the throngs that will be gathering in just a few short days, but with so much to do...I do what I do best...I stall.

Not knowing where to begin (the list is endless), I will begin off the list! That would be OTL in computer acronyms. While online last night, I IM'd with a blogging friend who got me to thinking! I love when that happens. She used an acronym I had not heard of....SAHB. I've used LOL, ROFL, MIRL, BBL, BTW, DH, TMI and SAHM, but SAHB? Multitasking, as I sometimes do while carrying on a conversation (could that be called NPA: not paying attention?), I popped in to her blogsite and discovered this post. I won't spoil the surprise, but let me just say, that's a creative and oh-so-appropriate acronym, for this blogging addicted momma...you know the one that should be cleaning and preparing some Christmas menus!
Karen, at Karen's Korner has bestowed upon me a pretty fabulous award: The Bodacious Blog award! Thank you Karen...and PTL for His goodness! You have brought so many so much joy since you began your blogging journey!

Hau`oli la Ho'omana'o to my MIRL blogging friend, Dawn! She has just returned from an Anniversary trip to Hawaii and was kind enough to let those of who stayed behind (in the cold!) live vicariously through her most amazing photo journal of her trip. In spite of getting home on Sunday evening, she somehow found the time to participate in BooMama's Christmas Tour of Homes! She amazes and inspires!

I found a new, really fun blog this week: Hootin' Anni's! Anyone that lists her occupation as Senior Citizen and has a little Santa Hat for her side scroll...is someone I'd like to MIRL! If she's anything like her blog--she really is a hoot!
And a must-mention trivia: I reconnected with an old blogging friend (formerly Created for HIS Glory...now Molly-Coddled.com) this week following my WW post. Yes, folks, someone actually knew of Temecula...and actually lived there! It truly is a small, small world...especially in cyberspace. It was good to hear from you again DF; as soon as I get this pesky housework finished, I will clean up my side bar and update your blog address!

One last bit of trivia, although there is nothing trivial about this site, if you have not discovered Boomer Babes Rock you must go there right now (but please do come back!) I first met Allison Bottke while blog-surfing and discovered her God Allows U-Turn ministry. Along with several other amazing Christian women, this blog daily offers powerful writing to inspire, empower, and enlighten! You will want to add this site to your sidebar in 2008, it's just the kind of gift that keeps on giving!

O.K., enough of this stalling, it's time to make hay--oh, wait, that was on yesterday's list! Today is a new day...and no need to worry...it will all get done!

Yes! It! Will!

Of course it will!

Or in the words of every good Swedish Santa: HO! HO! HO!
(translated: "Sure it will! You betcha!")
Anyone else LOL????

Monday, December 17, 2007



Introducing......

Raul (pronounced Rah-ool)

We have a winner!

Raul is a 9 year old Dutch Warmblood that captured Katie's heart the minute, the second, the nano second she saw him. He is 16.2 hands with an amazing temperament....with some pretty fabulous moves to boot!~
He's a keeper!

And, Dawn, although he is traveling home first class, it did not involve an air transport! He is being delivered cross country, riding very comfortably in his very own stall on a trailer transport! He is somewhere in South Dakota this morning and will be arriving at his new home today!
That's today!!!!!
And speaking of arriving home, WELCOME BACK Dawn from your fabulous trip to Paradise! I know reality is a bit of a shock, so be careful to ease on in!

Happy trails.....to all of you! Thanks for sharing in our joy! Now that the horse adventure is secured...I'm off to get ready for Christmas!

Thursday, December 13, 2007

For the love of horses

Our daughter became an equestrian the first time atop a horse!

Spending all of her allotted fair tickets, she rode this carnival pony at least ten times.

She has not stopped riding since.

Over the years we have watched her love grow into a passionate sport. From riding for pleasure to visiting a stable on a regular basis to leasing a horse to owning a horse. In fact, it is because of her passion that we moved from the comfort of suburban living to our hobby farm where we lived for six years. Somehow, I thought it would be more convenient to live with the horse instead of visiting it 6 or 7 times each week. Clearly, I did not consider Minnesota winters and mucking stalls! Still, our family insists to this day, the six years spent on that hobby farm were the best years ever!
She exercised... She cared for...

She jumped...she showed...

she placed... she loved...

So today, my dressage and cross country equestrian and I will leave the frozen tundra we call home and fly to California on a horse seeking mission. Her childhood friend, a former Olympic Rider and now a horse trainer, will meet us at the airport and we will begin the search for her next horse. Should we find just the perfect fit for the next phase in our daughters equestrian career, I'll post the new photos ASAP!

It's off to Temecula...for the love a horse (and a daughter!)

Friday, December 07, 2007

Lesson Learned!

Our son has his first basketball game of the Season tonight and the School's new head coach has implemented a Dress-for-Game policy. This required that we not only buy new dress clothes for our ever-growing 10th grader....but he needed to learn how to tie a tie! With great patience (and tolerance on Sam's part...he was NOT happy at all about this new policy!)....the lesson was a success!

Dad: First, you stand up straight, shoulders back......
Son: ????????

Dad: You take the short end and flip the...

Son: ????????

Dad: Simply cross, flip, tuck and pull.

Son: ????????

Dad: Your turn!
Lesson Learned!
Thanks for letting me share this moment with you!

A PROUD Mom!!!!!